Success is the best revenge.
Some people struggle most of their lives to become successful in whatever they do, but sadly, they fail in most of their extra attempts other than their regular jobs. Someone with a steady job knows that job will not take him or her to prosperity and a better lifestyle. Therefore, they always look out for new ventures along with their regular position.
When they do not see significant success, the people around them conclude they are not smart enough to set up a new venture and become successful. Besides, they make it a point to tell the individual who constantly struggles with new experiences harsh words like that you are not good at anything.
The person who keeps trying may not see significant success, but he or she would like to expect some appreciation for the efforts the individual puts in with the hope of becoming a winner. Of course, it is not ideal to keep wasting money on new ventures, but anyone can have many types of experiences without spending any money.
When you live among undermines, you will destroy your desires if you discuss them with them. For example, if you wrote a book and tried to sell it, the critics would say nobody would buy it because it is not worth the money. They conclude without even reading the book that will affect you badly.
However, I would say that it should not affect it. Instead, it should motivate you to work harder towards it. Another best option is to stop talking about it if you think that someone you associate with does not like your desires and accomplishments, as you will never get positive feedback.
When you keep failing, stop worrying about it and consider the incredible lessons you learned. Learning to accept the blessings you have, like writing a book, is not easy. Not everybody will do that. Therefore, you need to appreciate your strength in writing and publishing and think that if you can do this today, you might be able to do plenty of valuable things that lead to success. It would help if you never looked at the people discounting you when you failed; instead, that should inspire you.
When people say you are incapable of anything, you need to keep going with your attempts, as success is the best revenge in anyone’s life. When you achieve that, you prove to yourself that you can become successful and do not have to prove it to others.
We all know that extremely successful people worldwide face massive failures before achieving success. Therefore, keep in mind that you are not alone. Continue to read books and articles about famous people and how they succeeded in their lives. Then, you will realize that your failures are nothing when compared to the most successful people.
Success is the best revenge; it applies to business a lot, but I want to tell you that it also applies to your personal life. Sometimes, a couple falls apart and leaves each other because of education, job, and other status issues. In one case, I have seen a woman leave a young man after a couple of years of connection with him. Then, she married another person better off than the previous man at that time.
Eventually, the man who lost her was sad and depressed, but he made up his mind to develop himself. Ultimately, he reached a much better position than the other couple did. Therefore, success is the best revenge that teaches lessons to the involved parties.
Finally, I conclude that you should not worry about failures. Work hard towards success, which is the best revenge for your losses.